l'esprit de l'escalier

There's this acquaintance i have named foroud and he posts things on tumblr that connect to his facebook, which shows up on my feed, and when i read it it makes me think we are writing soulmates, because everything he says is everything i want to say, and i think we'd have such meaningful things to say to each other, but unfortunately just because two people are similar in such a wonderful way doesn't mean they can or will or even want to be friends.