Tuesday, March 9, 2010

something interesting

Steven said something yesterday during one of our phone calls that I'd never considered before, thought of in that way.

He said, when you truly like someone and you click with them in a way that you are both connected to each other, something happens. Other attractive people do not get uglier. They just go out of focus.

When he said that, I could immediately see how he was right, empirically. It really never occurred to me before he said it, though.

Other people, and how cute they are, do not change. It seems that your perspective of them changes in regards to who you're with. They become background noise.

I think that's super interesting. Don't you?

1 comment:

  1. Our world — friends lovers family strangers pets obsessions possessions fears — exists only in our own mind to the respect we pay it with attention, compassion, communication. Entanglement.

    It's the uncurable core of human values, I think.

    And it's very fascinating...