dude, what the hell is wrong with you?
stop drinking excessively. stop self medicating. stop being who you're not. so you're not one of the cool kids, and maybe you like quieter evenings. that's your prerogative. if you wanna see what the other scenes are like, go for it too.
be happy. be patient. be strong, because you are a diamond being. you don't need bitterness towards life, and women, and people who sleep well at night. you don't need a girlfriend or a boyfriend.
you'd be surprised how little you need.
so it's a... calm the fuck down, thing, innit
you're fine. we'll be fine.
tl;dr people be saying and doing stupid shit on facebook and it's stupid